Hiding from me

I hide because I am afraid.

I am afraid because I don’t want to be seen.

I don’t want to be seen because people might judge me.

I perceive that people might judge me because I judge me.

I judge me because I made mistakes and failed.

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Jenn Shallvey
A meditation on life

Many years ago I participated in a self development program that involved frequent meditation. One of the sessions included an exercise referred to as the “Eulogy Visualisation” or something to that effect.  I have since learned that there are many variations of the exercise. What I liked about the one we did was that it was facilitated with depth and respect.  We as a group were also held in a space that was supportive, loving, sharing, and accepting. In other words it was absolutely safe and appropriate for our group’s purpose.

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Jenn Shallvey
The real problem with plastic bags

At my local harbourside pool for a swim I saw a man commit an act of disrespect to the environment. Innocent, naïve and unaware I am sure he did not even realise his infraction. 

As I waited at the reception window to return my locker key he walked past me. He walked purposely but slowly, dressed in grey suit pants, a striped business shirt, coifed in silver streaked hair neatly combed following his swim.

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Words can be powerful - use them well

In today’s world of lounge experts and armchair critics we don’t stand a chance. Well that is if you listen to what ‘they’ say. ‘They’ are the people lining up to pull you down, jump at you, criticise, attack, complain. ‘They’ are the people who are on the attack at all times, armed with words and spite to hurt and harm. It is a woeful world this one of hate and meanness.

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Jenn Shallvey